
The record that doesn’t need reciting
Everything the partner did not do can be written down, dated, kept. Said out loud in the room it stops being proof and turns back into my claim about his conduct, and a claim is a thing the other side

Everything the partner did not do can be written down, dated, kept. Said out loud in the room it stops being proof and turns back into my claim about his conduct, and a claim is a thing the other side

A claim that lives only in what was said can be talked back out of shape. A claim that is dated on a page stops moving. That is why the page ends an argument that another round of talking never
The terms are written where they belong. Each field holds three desks, and every entry a desk writes raises the terms it uses, each term given a meaning, a mechanism and the places it appears. The record on these pages stays first person and hand made; the fields grow the nomenclature.