The record that doesn’t need reciting
Everything the partner did not do can be written down, dated, kept. Said out loud in the room it stops being proof and turns back into my claim about his conduct, and a claim is a thing the other side
No one to hold
A want only becomes collectible when there is one name on each end of it. Sent to a we, it goes to an address where nobody lives, and years of asking can produce nothing without a single person ever having
What a signature costs
A spoken promise costs the same whether it is kept or not, so it cannot tell you which of the two you are looking at. Economics settled that in 1973, and in the same year it settled the other half:
It’s on the page
A claim that lives only in what was said can be talked back out of shape. A claim that is dated on a page stops moving. That is why the page ends an argument that another round of talking never