Grip is a location
Whatever I supply before an arrangement is spoken binds me and not the other seat. The point where leaving stops being free can be found, it moves with what I hand over, and the only gate that holds it in
Said once, then refused
A term said before the grip forms takes nothing from anybody, and it sorts a person in the first weeks instead of years later. Said a second time, it is not persistence. It is me declining to read an answer
The agreement nobody stated
A covert contract is an agreement about what is owed that nobody ever stated. It is built from what was given, not from what was said, and it can be broken only because it was never spoken. Organisational psychology has