The have-to allergy
Any sentence with have to in it gets refused in me before I have read what it asks. Not laziness. A need for my own movement, pressed on early enough that it now pushes back at anything shaped like a
Said once, then refused
A term said before the grip forms takes nothing from anybody, and it sorts a person in the first weeks instead of years later. Said a second time, it is not persistence. It is me declining to read an answer
Availability is a derivative
Nobody announces how available they are. The other party derives it from the position that was stated and the action that followed, which is why a cost said out loud can sit in a room for months and move nothing
The agreement nobody stated
A covert contract is an agreement about what is owed that nobody ever stated. It is built from what was given, not from what was said, and it can be broken only because it was never spoken. Organisational psychology has